
If you can be anything in this world, be nice.

If you can be anything in this world, be nice.

There’s a part of me that wonders whether the world would be a better place is everybody was just honest. Honest with themselves, honest with each other, just honest.
Trying to spare someone’s feelings can quickly spiral into a web of lies and deceit. You start digging a hole, then find yourself twenty feet deep with little more than a trowel.
So, why do it? Why are we so desperate to please other people? What is it about human nature that drives us to avoid honesty at all costs?
Stop and think about it. What harm would telling the truth actually do? Will lying to them do more harm?
Honesty is the best policy, but we’re often too blind to see it.

Information was coming at her from all sides.
Conflicting, confusing information that was leaving her in no clearer position to make a decision. Turn left, turn right, do this, do that, fake news, real news, the truth, lies. How was she supposed to know what was right and what was wrong?
Friends were telling her one thing, family another and colleagues a third.
Bury your head, she thought. Keep a low profile and avoid the constant barrage of details, choices, confusions…

“You are unique, but you are part of a collective.” The message was clear.
Individuality was gone, uniformity was key. But within her uniformity, she knew she was individual. This wasn’t 1984, for Pete’s sake…
She had to keep hold of her individuality. She had to maintain the essence of ‘her’. She didn’t want to stand out, didn’t want to be obvious, didn’t want to run the risk of being separate, ostracised.
So how to keep a collective mentality while retaining an individual perspective? How to be part of the whole while remaining true to herself?
You are unique, but you are part of a collective.

The path ahead was clear, there was just one hurdle to cross and their destination would be within spitting distance.
A couple of steps, two up and two down, would lead them into the field and they would be away.
The hill looked ominous ahead of them, it was almost a mirage, they felt that, no matter how long they kept walking towards it, it would never be within reach.
But they also knew that they had to try, had to keep on going.
Just two steps up, and two steps down…


The first sign they came to was halfway up the wall, buried beneath years of paint.
It was Victorian, as old as the house into which it was embedded; a memory of a time when it meant something to take time, effort and pride to make signage. Signage that was there for one reason and one alone. Nobody would normally look for it; most wouldn’t even see it.
But there it sat, bold as cast iron, giving information to the world and no-one.

Further on, another sign pointed the way.
It was a different direction than the one they wanted to go in, but its instructions were clear, very clear.
There seemed no reason for the diversion, though. The road was empty in both directions, no hint of closure. But they were conscientious and set off in the direction the sign was pointing, unsure whether, in fact, that would get them to the destination they were hoping for.

A gate barred their way, a third sign informing them what lay beyond.
But was it an Abbey or was it a Farm? They had previously seen a sign for Street Road, which was muddling in itself, and this just added to their confusion.
Beyond the gate was a path, but they were on the outskirts of a town, and there was no farm in sight, let alone any building of religious significance.
Still they made their way on, hoping against hope that where they were heading, what they were doing, was right.

Another sign, and one whose message always seemed to cause chaos.
Social distancing was a new concept. Years had gone by and people had slowly but surely gotten used to being more tactile. Then things had changed, and distance became the new close.
New road layouts were always a hazard, particularly as the signs tended to stay in place long after new became old.
So they carried on, taking extra care and being overly vigilant, hoping that the end was in sight, metaphorically as well as geographically.

The steepest of hills offer the most stunning of views.
Climb to the top; it will be worth it.
Just take it one step at a time and you will get there.

The sun will always outlast the rain.
Just because everything seems bleak at the moment, that doesn’t mean it will last forever.
Have faith and belief and you too will ensure.

You have the strength to get through this.
Believe in yourself.
You have the ability and drive, so go for it!

Let you emotions flow.
Don’t bottle up the way you feel; in the long run it will do you no good.
Be honest with yourself and with others; there is a way through this and you can find it.
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